This Tarot reading stuff. Divination or Counselling?

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Merriam- Webster: Divination: the art or practice that seeks to foresee or foretell future events or discover hidden knowledge usually by the interpretation of omens or by the aid of supernatural powers. 2 : unusual insight : intuitive perception.

Counselling:  the provision of professional assistance and guidance in resolving personal or psychological problems. “bereavement counselling”

Depending on the reader, it may be either or both. There are Tarot Counsellors who advertise as such, and who specialise in taking a counselling approach, often based on formal, academic Jungian training. These readers may decline to handle any forecasting. Other readers, working with a more psychic style of approach, may offer valuable, sensible advice, but without a basis in formal counselling training, and the source of their insights is another conversation. Is it empathy, intuition, hard boiled shrewdness, life experience, or something else?

In preparing for a reading, Tarot, runes, cards etc; the reader can only prepare to respond. The person will wish for verifiable feedback  early on in the process, or how else can they see if you know your stuff?

They will want feedback, advice, prediction, hard, workable information, or they may be fragile or tired, looking for a bit of hope and cheer. But it has to be credible, to them, in the form that it takes.

Mantras or spiritual platitudes simply will not cut it.

The reader must be ready to deal in specifics. Questions will often be presented as entirely hard boiled, to do with money or business outcomes.

The client may want a yes or no answer; eg, is this merger going ahead, will I win or lose this court case. If I spent 50 K on building this extension to my premises will I get that money back when I want to sell?

Only time will tell whether you get it right, and you better had, far more often than you get it wrong, or you won’t be doing this work for long.

But nothing is ever entirely factual and hard-boiled. Wherever time, thought, worry, hope and effort is invested, there are also high personal and emotional stakes.

There are also those other questions where the only validation possible is in the heart and mind of the other person, and whether or not your answer finds resonance within them.
Here’s an example from a social media forum,  all readings free of charge.
The questioner’s identity disguised.

Questioner. ‘Help me please? Is there a spirit of a unborn child surrounding me? Here are the cards I drew but I’m not sure what they mean.’ 

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Images from The Golden Tarot, by kind permission of Kat Black

The enquirer received 3 responses.

Responder 1: A better question would be asking such spirits who they are to get your answer.

Responder 2 :  Ask them who they are!! I have 4 guides and they always come in 2’s. Never by themselves.

Responder 3: (KT) I don’t think so but I do see mourning (The 9 Swords) and The Fool card represents the newborn or the unborn while The Tower can suggest a sudden, shocking event. Is this why you are asking? Are you grieving a pregnancy – a lost baby?

Questioner: Yes, and my other children seem highly attracted to my tummy all of a sudden and clingy. Its weird.

KT: I am so sorry. In answer to your question, no, I think based on your cards here, there is no ghost. The Fool card especially, says the little one’s returned to source, to the palm of the Universe, or God, whatever you like to call it. The Tower and the 9 Swords, I see as reflections of you, and the aftermath of a shock-wave.  You do not want to think of the baby stuck and trapped at your side, a soul too small to know why.  You can make a shrine inside yourself, in your mind, in your heart, with a candle to light the way back to life one day for that little soul, and in that way, you can be the baby’s own guardian angel for all time.

Questioner: I love that idea! But why do my children keep wanting to touch my tummy?

KT:  I think your children are sensing and responding to your grief, and they understand the source of it, whether instinctively or because you have told them. They’re wanting to ‘rub it better.’, wishing to comfort you, and also they are anxious, and want reassurance from you that everything’s all right.

Questioner: So not a ghost then?

KT I’d say no, there is no conscious entity here, the baby is gone to source again safe and sound. The ‘ghost’ now is the memory, the grief and the physical aftermath of loss. Your body may feel like a haunted place for the time being, not because the spirit of the baby is there, but mind and body are one, this is a fact of biology, and the body is still adjusting after the loss of the baby.

It’s not for me or anyone to pronounce of course, there are always the great unknowns,  but I see no ghost here in the supernatural sense of the word .

The one card in the Tarot most suggestive of a ghost…as in an active, ongoing haunting is The Moon card. It’s absent here, every card contains a message and sometimes in a reading, a card is actually most conspicuous by its absence.

Questioner: That’s such a weight off my mind, I can’t begin to tell you.

SUMMARY

This was not divination as such apart from the fact that I picked up on the reason behind the initial question.

But was it counselling? I’ve done some of that work and training in previous jobs. Maybe not quite that either. The methodology would possibly not be accepted as counselling in the formal sense of the word.

Looking again at the first two replies, I was struck that their replies reflected a personal position or philosophy, but did not engage with the cards presented by the questioner, and in doing so, bypassed her story here, because the cards clearly raise a  story that begs a question – what was the reason for this lady’s question?

My response, whether ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ – meaningless terms here – were prompted by the questioner’s own cards- I was acting simply as an external translator.

I felt her question very deeply, for my own reasons, but the reader must be so careful not to let THEIR stuff get in the way of seeing someone else’s stuff.

What connects everyone in the real WEB is that there are facts, there are truths and there are poetic truths.

And nothing new under the sun.

Divination or counselling. You decide.

Until next time 🙂

Tarot Parroting…Another case of psychic Art Imitating life

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Tarot loves to start off a reading, playing parrot.

Just as Art imitates or rather, conjures Life, that’s how Tarot works. As within, so without.  The first thing I aim to do in a reading, is ask the cards to help me identify my client’s most pressing concern or question. The Tarot tells me by ensuring I draw the card that most accurately mirrors that unspoken concern or question, as closely as can be managed from among the 78 cards in a Tarot deck.

This ‘mirror-card’ tells me and my client that we are on the same wavelength, which provides a reliable baseline for the rest of the reading.

My Tarot did it again today, and deserves one of those little nectar pots adored by larikeets and parrots alike.

I was about to self- inject for the first time, trying out a new med for quite a severe severe rheumatoid-type illness (I have tried MANY approaches in 20 odd years, with too much ground covered to mention, while exercising great care in agreeing which pharma meds to try )

The med is called Orencia or Abatacept. It is a new class of meds known as biologics. Orencia works to inhibit the production of T cells, T1 and T1. These are normal proteins, and are essential for your normal immune response, but if that goes wrong for any reason, they can go into overproduction, causing an inflammatory cytokine cascade resulting in acute pain and long term damage.

These biologics, while for some they offer a last chance of respite, can be dangerous, so I thought I’d pull myself a few cards before injecting.

The first card out was The Tower.

 

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Just look at that pic. How well did the Tarot do, with a deck of 78 cards to work with, shuffled and drawn blind and at random…in guiding me to draw this card, signifying the issue in question.

Look at the card again. Look at the injector pen.

Squawk! Pretty Polly! 

This is how readers know their question has been heard and logged by their unconscious mind. The first card out of the deck will mirror the stated question, or even the unstated question.

Next I drew

4 Swords, (illness)
Ace Swords ( a sword, or in this case…spring loaded needle)
and 7 Pentacles. (tend to the crop, patience is required.)
This last card was also a suitable reflection as this med is is a weekly injection.
I therefore concluded, that while I could not expect a miracle, or even a significant observable response, there would be no significant negative response; a finding which I am so far in a position to validate.
Tarot does make me laugh sometimes.
Till next time 🙂

Question on Quora: What Is It Like to Use A Psychic On A Regular Basis?

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Response

It’s a ‘how long is a piece of string’ question. I read for people who’ve been using my service on an intermittent basis since I started in 2002. Hopefully, no-one will feel a need to access psychic readings on a regular basis, nor do ethical readers encourage dependency, as an unhealthy situation, not in the best interests of customer or reader.

Some people can become ‘addicted’ to getting readings. That’s not good news, and it’s liable to add to any confusion, especially if readings or readers appear to contradict each other. It’s a potential headache for the reader, a reading can be a potent experience and though it’s rare, it can happen that a customer threatens to become a stalker.

Many readers discourage this behaviour by setting terms on frequency of access. Most readers will operate a personal policy in respect of frequency of readings for the same person. They might well state, also, that they will only read once on a given question or issue. They won’t keep reading on the same issue just because the customer didn’t like the answers first time round.

This could happen. It is a risk you run in requesting a reading. The reader must say what they see, and say what they do not see, if that is the question, sharing their findings with care, never to frighten the customer, but respecting the oracle nonetheless.

Some readers will discourage returns within 6 weeks, others within six months.

There may be exceptions. It might be someone has hit a very bad patch, and is finding readings useful, or is finding comfort and support in readings, intensively perhaps, but only for a short time, where other approaches have not met the need, or are not wanted. Bereavement is one such possible situation. Anyone could hit a patch like this, and not find what they are looking for through doctors or counsellors, or else not wish to use those services. They may not wish to discuss things with family or friends, and might choose a psychic reading as a coping resource.

 

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The High Priestess: a psychic reader, and representative of one’s own intuition; Image from The Golden Tarot by Kat Black, by kind permission of U.S Games Systems.

 

Another exception I can think of based on my  reading experience is when someone is using a particular psychic’s skills for professional or business purposes. I say, particular psychic. It’s such a broad collective term, ‘psychic’, as to be practically meaningless, and not helpful on its own. Potential customers are advised to do some research. Look up the psychic’s website, go by word of mouth. What kinds of question does a particular psychic handle, do they specialise? How do they set out their stall? What is their background?

Business motivated users of psychic services are often operating in a degree of isolation, and perhaps, are bearing heavy responsibilities. It is not that they are emotionally dependent, or likely to become so, however often they use the service, and they will stop using it the minute they don’t see the return on investment they are looking for. They are interested in accessing psychic insights as part of their working arsenal, for strategic and planning purposes.

Until next time 🙂

 

 

When The High Priestess (Reversed) was a fishy affair….

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Idly playing with my cards at the dining table, I asked Il Matrimonio what he was doing with the fish tanks. He kept two tanks of tropical fish at that time, guppies in one, neon tetras in the tank in the dining room.

Male guppies are colourful, every individual’s unique. The females are drab coloured.  They produce live babies, but the adults tend to cannibalise the newborns if they don’t make for the weeds as soon as they emerge, and hide there until they’re too big to be eaten. Awww. So sweeeet.

Neon tetras are small and slim, blue, red and white, with a zingy neon strip along their sides, as the name suggests.

The hubby explained that he was introducing a young male guppy into the tetra tank for his own safety. Whereupon, using my old Universal Waite deck that day, I drew The High Priestess. (US Games)

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However, I work with reversed cards, and I drew her reversed. A reversed card is not necessarily negative in connotation. It may simply flag up an area requiring special care. But I felt this was a warning, to be read in a literal sense.

‘I don’t think you should do that,’ I said. ‘I’m seeing danger here from a lady who is blue, white and red.  I think the tetras will have him if you put him in there, and I think he won’t last two weeks.’

(Tarot can work like this with timing. The High Priestess is Major Trump 2.)

Il Matrimonio was having none of it. The tetras were no risk to the guppy, they were too small, completely harmless. What did I know about tropical fish, etc etc?

Eff all, it is true. Please, any proper a-fish-ionad-os reading this, do not troll me on this score. But the reader does not have to factually know. That is the point and indeed the potential usefulness of oracular divination.

‘Ok,’ I said, ‘in which case it is a warning against the tetra tank. I wouldn’t put him in there.’

‘Well, he won’t last if I leave him where he is.’

A few days later, poor guppy was gone. RIP. Not so much as a fin left.

Not saying the tetras did it any harm. It might have been something about the tank, and maybe guppy was toast whatever Il Matrimonio did, but they certainly cleaned him away.

All we had left were the tetras, swimming innocently about,  the piscine little High Priests/esses in their grotto.

Till next time 🙂

 

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